My 1st and AWESOME Boat Shoes

I have been looking for those shoes like for ages...and finally I found them and I love them...haha...for more than one reason ;)

Prayer...

YOU ARE UNIQUELY ORIGINAL!

Love this picture...it has soo much wisdom to it...



Often in life we tend to be very uncertain of our abilities, worth and self-esteem. We tend to see ourselves less useful as other do or perhaps not useful at all. We tend to think we are not beautiful at all and that is why we are not loved as much as others are. We tend to forget our uniqueness and often compare ourselves to others in every single matter.

But we must realize or remind ourselves of this fact: WE ARE UNIQUELY ORIGINAL! We are not a copy but an ORIGINAL!
God didn't create one type of a woman and got lazy and copied us...but He took all time that was needed and made us unique...VERY unique - UNIQUELY ORIGINAL!

Loosing this fact out of sight we tend to compare ourselves to others, lower our self-esteem and harbor sad feelings.

I find myself guilty of this..I tend to compare myself to others. I tend to wanting to be like others but that is simply impossible. I am perfectly made by God and He took His time to create me...He didn't just say: "Well, I'm tired today...I'll make her a copy of someone" - NO...instead He said: "That's my girl...I will make her special and uniquely original...she will be ONE in a kind"

What a loving God I serve! He loved me so much to give me my very own unique talents, abilities, even weaknessness, strengths, personality, attitude and character-traits.

Is it not wonderful to say: I am uniquely original! No one on this planet earth was like me, is like me and will be like me?

I pray that God reminds me daily of my unique originality and so does you too...

Love yourself...don't compare yourself to the models out there that have nothing than empty vessels, that comform themselves to the world with loosing their uniqueness...stop trying to be like others...stop trying to copy other's habits...sure sometimes it's good to strive for the humbleness of someone else...but don't think for a second it will be like that person...it will be uniquely different....
Enjoy your uniqueness and your differences...Enjoy the fact:

YOU ARE UNIQUELY ORIGINAL!

I'm sorry...

Saying SORRY seems to be the hardest word yet it can heal so much and mend that which has been broken and hurt...

Say SORRY...even if you feel like you are not at fault...you don't even have a clue how much it did hurt the other person...

Listen to the song and learn the lesson behind it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GvbQzRAi4wM

Love and humble yourself and say: "I'm sorry" <3<3

Beauty...

Beauty...what is it?
Really...beauty cannot be defined...what is beautiful to me is to someone else normal or even ugly...beauty is indeed only in the eyes of the beholder...

I think it's sad that this world tries with all force to conform beauty to a specific set of body measures, weight,etc.
I am totally for it to loose weight if you don't feel well with your weight but not to be a size0...that is absolutely insane...

Even the bible says in Proverbs 31:30: Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised... ....that beauty is vain...beauty is a wonderful thing but NOT the uttermost thing...
I myself am guilty of the mindset of wanting to be as thin as all those models that have millions on their bank account and friends everywhere....

But why is beauty that important? Why do we need to try to convince a guy of ourselves primarily of our outward beauty? Should someone not love us because of who we are which is defined by our character or just bc. we are nice to look at...

That brings me to the statement: Never judge a book by it's cover...

A girl/guy might be outwardly hot and you can't take off your eyes of her/him...but what is inside of that person?
Does that person have a great personality....loving kind character and above all GODLY EXAMPLE?!!

We often fall back into the worldly mindset: I need to be thin, hot and sexy dressed so people like me but is that really what we should look after?

I can't remember where I read this but Megan Fox herself said: She is actually very shy but her outward appearance give her the courage to go before media....
See....outward beauty doesn't make you everything...perfectly....it DOES count what is inside of you!!

Girls, I encourage you all to stay true to yourself and feel beautiful even with 10kg more on your weight than is "normal" for this world.

GOD made every person beautiful...just in different shapes and styles....that doesn't mean you are not beautiful...encourage yourself and be happy how God made you...you don't need 10 tons of make-up to try to fix you to a hot and sexy girl...make-up only says: I am not satisfied how God made me...so I need to correct God's "mistake"...

Be yourself...be proud of who you are and love yourself....if you do; even faking it....people will see that glow in you and there will be definitely a guy that will fall for you...not only your outwardly but most of all YOU!!!

Trust and let go a little...

I have found to realize that age do not hinder people to control you...

Even at the age of 20 parents can't stop seeing their kids as little babies they need to control constantly...
That is not a problem but with time, if that occurs over and over again it brings mistrust and distance...

I know the love between parents and kids is uniquely made and nothing really can break it(except abuse or other)...but if control is ever present in that relationship it bring forth mistrust, anger and distance...

Parents need to let their kids feel they trust them to achieve things on their own in life...especially at the age of 20....I don't mean crazy life-threatening things but at least the simple one's like making a call at the doctor!!!....or decisions on how to manage their own life...

If you don't let kids have a little control, experience life on their own...then you are controlling them...at first it will be appreciated but with time it will start to grow into mistrust....out of mistrust distance will have it's way....

Parents I'm not saying you should let your kids loose but give them the feeling they are perfectly made and they can handle things on their own with 20!!! ;)

Tossed and forgotten...unloved and unwanted...

Seems like my world is crashing into pieces right now...not only is everyone picking on me to change myself because I have an awful character...but it seems like that is not enough...I really can cope with that but now it seems like I can't talk to anyone anymore...because whatever I say is hold against me...Whatever I let out of heart people take against me to judge me and make me look like a miserable person...
Seems like showing me my failures is not enough...people need to make sure they break my heart and violate my trust...I have my issues with trusting people and now the people I thought I could trust with my life are the ones that break it over and over again...it hurts to see the ones you think you let into your hearts to trust are the ones that just take your heart and crush it into pieces...they don't care I trusted them because I felt hopeless but now...what else to say...

The storm is tossing and throwing me from here to then...me in it and no rescue in sight or reach...hopeless and left behind...tossed and forgotten...unloved and unwanted....