Charisma-BOOST

Every week I get an email from a man called Christian Sander...He wrote self-helping books for women who just can't understand men and their uniquesness and want to understand our opposite sex.

The last email he wrote me was about Charisma.

What is Charisma?
According to Wikipedia this is Charisma:
1) compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others
2) a divinely conferred power or talent.

Charisma is very important...Everyone has Charisma...wether it be postive or negative, too much or too little...seen and noticed or unseen and unnoticed...

The email said Charisma is how people see us but 90% of it depends on how we feel.

I soo loved this email because it did encourage me to see myself differently...He said:

A little advice for your charisma:

YOU HAVE TO ACT AS IF!!!

That is soo true. Often in life we let ourselves down from life and problems, issues and worries...we walk on the streets and our face says it all, our shoulders are low or back curled...We show others even unintensionally: We are down...but the other person does not know what horrible day you might have had...they might think...Hmmm...that person is just that way and has no charisma...
Here comes in the advice Christian Sander gave: YOU HAVE TO ACT AS IF....

Act as if you are the happiest girl/guy on earth and you will show that to everyone and believe it or not: You will feel like that!
To be happy is a choice! You can choose to be happy or not. You can choose after a long and stressful day to leave your worries behind and just encourage yourself to be happy and the whole wide world will see it!

I am even talking to myself...Often if I am down, sad or not happy I let myself go and drown in my unhappiness. This is wrong...with God on our side HE is HAPPINESS enough...HE IS enough to be thankful and happy again no matter what the world has offered us!!!

Try today, if you feel unhappy and sad, to act as if you are happy! You will see your worries will slowly vanish and you will start being happy.

The psychologist and philosopher William James(1842-1910) said it already over 100 years ago:

If you want a characteristic in you, then you have to act as if you aready had it!

Act happy as if you are indeed happy!
Act as if you the most beautiful girl as if you were told a billion times you are!!

FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT!!!